Wedding Articles: Miscellaneous

May 19th, 2012 by kitty

Expressing your love for your new husband or wife may seem like a difficult task, particularly when it is done in front of a room full of your wedding guests. For this reason, many couples elect to use the words of another, more linguistically accomplished writer. The following examples are some of the more unique and unusual verses and messages, which may be just the words you needed to express yourself perfectly:

Giving Up Smoking (Wendy Cope)
There’s not a Shakespeare sonnet
Or a Beethoven quartet
That’s easier to like than you
Or harder to forget.

You think that sounds extravagant?
I haven’t finished yet -
I like you more than I would like
To have a cigarette.

My Heart Has Two Left Feet (Gem)

My clumsy heart has two left feet
It always trips when I see you
It starts to race and skip a beat
My clumsy heart has two left feet
It’s starting now to feel the heat
Because of all the things you do
My clumsy heart has two left feet
It always trips when I see you

The Movie of Our Life (Darien)

In the movie of our life, starring you and me.
Hollywood is in for a treat, wait until they see.

The stage is all ours, so let’s put on a good show.
We act these roles so well, but they will never know.

Shakespeare seems out of date, Romeo and Juliet got old.
Baby they have nothing on us, so let our story be told.

We write romance scenes, like forever had no end.
It all comes so natural, with an amazing girlfriend.

We’ve only gotten started, the end is far from now.
Nothing can break us up, not even a broken vow.

People watch the notebook, is that all Hollywood’s got?
Girl, you and me alone, make those scenes look hot.

They’ll write a story one day, and a movie to go with it.
Just get us to act it out, It would be the greatest hit.

We may never be Hollywood’s hottest, Brad and Angelina will be in the past.
It will last as long as their careers, but baby you and I will forever last.

Golden Maiden (James)
I woke up in the morning,
Hearing the knock of my front door.
I never knew what love was,
I never knew before.
I saw the golden maiden
From all my forgotten dreams.

Now I finally realized,
Life was better then what it seems.
I have no further regrets,
I have nothing else to say.
If love is forbidden,
I will love her anyway
You can’t help me, you can’t stop me.
I love her with all my might.
You can’t hurt me, you can’t stop me.
The golden maiden is all my light.
I woke up in the midnight,
hearing the ringing in my ear.
I turned off the alarm and checked
if anyone was here.
When I didn’t see her
I then started to cry.
Then I heard an angel’s voice
and saw a golden spark within my eye.
I saw my goddess, the golden maiden
I knew that everything was alright.
I gazed upon her, my golden maiden
Forever spellbound by the night.

No Title (Anonymous)
I wanna be your vacuum cleaner
breathing in your dust
I wanna be your Ford Cortina
I will never rust
If you like your coffee hot
let me be your coffee pot
You call the shots
I wanna be yours

Farm Wedding Theme

May 19th, 2012 by kitty

Farms can be absolutely idyllic settings in which to host your ultimately romantic wedding day. The beauty of nature, the smells of fresh flowers and wild grasses and the warm sun resting on your affair paints a whimsical picture of flirty romance against a relaxed backdrop. Although there are plenty of décor options for your farm-themed wedding, the location alone creates an effective theme, giving you the option of minimising your décor and relying more on the farmyard elements around you.

Although a farm-themed wedding need not necessarily be held on a farm, this certainly will make your theme more effective. Ask friends, family members or local farmers if they would be willing to let you use their farm for a fee. In some places, farmers actually subsidise their income by hiring their land out for just such events. You will need to take the following things into consideration:

  • You may need a liquor licence to sell alcohol to guests.
  • Can the farm facilities accommodate the kitchen and service requirements of your wedding?
  • There have to be sufficient suitable bathroom facilities for your guests.
  • Will loud music affect or annoy the neighbours and / or animals?
  • Is there a barn or a similar building in which you can have your reception (even if it is as a Plan B option in case of bad weather)? If not, you might need to consider erecting a marquee.
  • Whether you want animals to be present in the background or not, you will need to inform the farmer so that he or she can ensure that they put them in the correct grazing field on the day.

Arrive at your reception venue on a tractor, horse carriage, horse back or on foot.

Attire and Accessories

A farm wedding allows a very classic, feminine, chic look and feel without being overly formal. This means that wedding gowns can be very pretty, but brides can steer clear of very large skirts and formal heels. Grooms and groomsmen will look great in open-necked shirts with waistcoats instead of jackets, or in lighter coloured day suits. For an even more casual look, don denim, cotton and leather instead. Bridesmaids and flower girls will look really sweet in short denim dungaree dresses and sun hats.

Your bouquet should be a loose arrangement of wild flowers. Otherwise, replace it with fun alternatives, such as a basket of freshly picked stems, a wire basket of eggs, an arrangement of straw, and so on. Brides may even omit the bouquet all together and simply walk down the aisle with a farm animal, such as a gentle sheep or a sweet calf.

It is important to choose comfortable shoes, as you will likely be walking on soft ground, particularly while having your photographs taken. Wellington boots come in a range of designs and styles, and can be turned into quite a style feature underneath your elegant clothes.

Décor

Create a romantic feature out of your dance floor, perhaps concealing it beneath an old oak tree or next to a water hole or stream. Use enchanting lighting to set the scene, perhaps using candles and lanterns. Centrepieces for the tables could be baskets of fresh fruit and vegetables, freshly baked farm breads or a collection of homemade preserves.

If you are able to have your wedding outdoors, setting the tables in one of the fields or under the trees is bound to create the perfect scene for your friends and family to celebrate your special day. Be sure to provide plenty of shelter from the sun using large umbrellas. Also, make knee rugs available for the cooler evening hours.

You can also incorporate the following into your farm wedding décor:

  • Wine barrels
  • Hay bales
  • Aluminium crockery
  • Plenty of wild flowers
  • Old fruit crates
  • Vintage features (such as teapots, birdcages and antique, mismatched tables and chairs)

The Great Wedding Photography Debate: Black & White Vs. Color

May 18th, 2012 by kitty

Every photographer has his own style of shooting to capture memorable images, but what makes these images truly great? While the content of the image itself plays a large role, whether an image is presented in color or black and white can also have a significant impact on the photograph.

If you were to look at an image captured in color, then look at that same image as black and white, chances are that it would speak differently to you, with an entirely different message. In fact, the whole mood of an image can be changed by the decision of how to show it. Images full of emotion might be better presented in black and white, whether it’s a tearful bride receiving that last kiss from dad as they walk down the aisle or the excitement of being announced as husband and wife for the first time. Without color, the background elements and environmental distractions are eliminated and the emotion of the scene becomes clearer.

A photograph of a couple walking on the beach, or frolicking in a field of sunflowers would probably present better in color, as the color is very much part of the story. In these situations, color helps to narrate the event by offering a sense of place and conjuring up a feeling of what it would be like to be there. It is likely that the portrait of a flower girl in her new dress would have more appeal to family when it is presented in color because there is an emotional attachment or characteristic such as the youthfulness of the little girl, and it’s a representation of how beautiful she looked that day. However, the image of the same little girl in her daddy’s arms, exhausted from dancing and the excitement of the day, may better tell the story in black and white.

Typically, the overall the choice of black and white vs. color is subjective and based on the content of the image and the story it tells. Often, opting to use color may be the best way to convey subjects and scene better–but if the image lacks impact in color, you might find a stronger message in black and white. The choice can be tough, but if you look closely, one version will clearly present itself as the best representation to you.

Nevermind the Photographs – Why your photographer could be the most important part of your wedding day!

May 18th, 2012 by kitty

Nobody is better placed to help your wedding day along than your chosen wedding photographer. A bold statement, but stay with me.

You’ve paid out a small fortune for other people to look after everything, and you’ll be a little bit pre-occupied of course, what with getting married etc.

The groom will go along with whatever you want, darling. As will dads. Men, huh?

Mums will help a little, enough, or a lot…I’m not going there.

And your friends have come for the party.

Your cake and flowers will be delivered. The DJ will set up later.

The venue will feed and water you. And the 90 other people you’ve invited. But not at the church, or on the boat, or even the dancefloor.

Only your wedding photographer will be focused on you through all of it. To record the day’s events, we have to always be there…around…watching. Not in your face, in the background. Experience tells us when to expect things to happen, when to nudge them along and when to stay out of the way. We might take photos of your flowers, your table plans, your decorations, but we will always know where you are and when. Right up until it’s time to leave.

We’ve joked with grooms and best men to calm their nerves.

We’ve told the bride she looks wonderful seconds before she faces the world.

We’ve asked the flower girls to jump on the page boys, just to see what happens.

We’ve filled-up when your dad’s voice cracked during his speech.

We’ve worked out which is your mum and which is your stepmum.

We’ve made friends with your labrador!

We’ve taken you both aside for a few minutes to give you a breather and remind you you’re there for each other.

Oh, and we’ve taken a few photographs too!

The best dress for summer wedding

May 17th, 2012 by kitty

It is true that every single woman desires to be the most beautiful bride in the world when she marries to her soul mate. So a suit of unique and charming wedding dresses always be the first choice for the bride. Most of the brides look forward to wearing the most glamorous wedding dress and shinning jewelries in front of their friends and families in that special moment, our shop specializes in selling all sorts of wedding dresses to choose and make that precious moment become the most happiness moment in your whole life. Here I strongly recommend the summer wedding dresses, especially summer beach wedding dresses.

What impresses people most is that summer wedding dresses are always full of freshness, elegance and passion. Furthermore, the summer wedding dresses also promote the romantic marriage for those couples who marry in summer. The designers take both elaborate styles and comfort degrees into account and lay out the perfect wedding dresses to those couples. 

Here is a brief introduction of the representative of summer wedding dresses - summer beach wedding dresses. Its unique design-concept reflects the beauty of sea. They are very welcomed by most women. The smooth laces and the pure white color make every bride as beautiful as the snow white in the fairy tale. What’s more, the beach wedding dresses of different colors can cater to different styles. For instance, white makes you pure, red makes you soulful, and pink makes you cute. You should firmly believe that the summer wedding dresses can realize your perfect marriage and lead you to a better destination of your own life.

BRIDE & GROOM’S ALBUM

May 17th, 2012 by kitty

The bride and groom’s photo album is the traditional way to preserve your special day. You and your spouse will look at the photos many times during your lifetime. Therefore, hiring a good photographer is one of the most important tasks in planning your wedding.

Options: There are a large variety of wedding albums. They vary in size, color, material, construction and price. Traditional-style albums frame each individual photo in a mat on the page. Digitally designed “Montage” albums group the photos in a creatively designed fashion for a more modern look. Find one that you like and will feel proud of showing to your friends and family. Some of the most popular manufacturers of wedding albums are Art Leather, Leather Craftsman, Capri and Renaissance. Keep in mind however, that the quality of the original photographs will determine how the finished album looks so choose your photographer for their skills, not necessarily the manufacturer of the album.

Make sure you are shown the different styles of album available.

Different papers are available to print your photos, pearl and metallic as well as black and white can be chosen. Ask to see samples.

Things To Consider: Make sure you hire a photographer who specializes in weddings. Your photographer should be experienced in wedding procedures and familiar with your ceremony and reception sites. This will allow him/her to anticipate your next move and be in the proper place at the right time to capture all the special moments. Personal rapport is extremely important. The photographer may be an expert, but if you don’t feel comfortable or at ease with him or her, your photography will reflect this. Comfort and compatibility with your photographer can make or break your wedding day and your photographs!

Look at his/her work. See if the photographer captured the excitement and emotion of the bridal couple. Also, remember that the wedding album should unfold like a story book — the story of your wedding. Be sure to discuss with your photographer the photos you want so that there is no misunderstanding. A good wedding photographer will plan the day with you to ensure that all the important moments are covered. It is acceptable to take a list of important photos to your planning session before the wedding (even one copied from a wedding planning book). This will keep you on track and ensure that you’ve asked about all the photos that are “must haves.”

Ask to look at albums that the photographer has ready to be delivered, or proofs of weddings recently photographed. Study the photographer’s style. It’s fine if they tell you that they’re skilled in “photojournalistic” or “candid” photography but, if that’s so, you should see plenty of candid-style shots in their portfolio! Some photographers are known for formal poses, while others specialize in more candid, creative shots. Some can do both.

When asked to provide references, photographers will obviously give you names of clients that they know are pleased with their work. (Why give a name of someone who wasn’t?) So keep this in mind if you decide to call a former client.

When comparing prices, compare the quantity and size of the photographs in your album and the type of album that each photographer will use. Ask how many photos will be taken on average at a wedding of your size. Some photographers do not work with proofs. Rather, they simply supply you with a finished album after the wedding. Doing this may reduce the cost of your album but will also reduce your selection of photographs. Many photographers will put your proofs on a DVD for viewing. This is much less bulky and an easy way to preview all of your wedding photos.

Beware: Make sure the photographer you interview is the specific person that will photograph your wedding. Many companies have more than one photographer. The more professional companies will make sure that you meet with (and view the work of) THE photographer that will photograph your wedding. This way you can get an idea of his/her style and personality and begin to establish a rapport with YOUR photographer. Your chosen photographers name should go on your contract!

Delivering Your Perfect Wedding Speech

May 15th, 2012 by kitty

 Read Your Speech Or Memorise It?

Some people are more than happy to trust everything to memory, some like to familiarise themselves with the speech and then reduce the speech down to a few brief notes or comment cards. That is okay but it tends to interrupt the flow of the speech.

I would suggest memorising it, but if you decide to read it straight from the paper it is printed on, that is fine. No one will mind as most people realise how nerve wracking it is to stand up and make a speech and also how easy it is to forget it when nervous.

Practise

Whatever option you decide make sure you rehearse it, then rehearse it and rehearse it. Either way do not just leave it to reading it from the sheet without at least practising it. With a good amount of rehearsing the speech you can make it flow even when reading it.

So practise the speech, read it out aloud to yourself, be critical. Even better read it out to someone else and let them be critical too.

Slow Down, Do Not Read It Too Quick

The one thing that ruins a very good speech is when the speaker reads it too fast. Nerves can make you want to get it over with, but relax, slow down and you will be surprised just how much you actually enjoyed it.

When being funny make sure you leave a pause, either to deliver the punch line or to wait for the applause to die down, allowing you to carry on.

If you go too quick your audience will be struggling to catch what you just said and will soon get fed up with you talking. Give them time to take in your points and your punch lines, give them time to laugh and applaud.

If you do not give them time to listen or react and you do not get the reaction to your funny comments that you were anticipating, you then start to panic and tend to get quicker making things even worse. I have known the most confident and experienced speakers suffer and have the urge to read or talk quicker. Slow down and take your time but speak clearly and loudly. You can even ask people at the back of the room if they can hear you, before you start your speech. You will probably get one witty guest, there normally is one, who shouts back “No”, turn it to your advantage and say “good”, a bit of laughter tends to help with any nerves.

Laughter

As I have just stated, wait for a laugh….wait. If you do not get one, then again turn it to your advantage and say something like “that went down well didn`t it” or “feel free to join in and laugh”. I have even known some to have large cue cards written that can be held up saying `LAUGH`, `APPLAUD`, `GROAN` and at the end `STANDING OVATION`. They generally tend to work.

Another ploy is to tell your audience that they were supposed to laugh and that you refuse to carry on until they join in.

One main point, is do not carry on until the laughter has subsided and ENJOY the laughter it will help with your confidence.

I tend to watch comedians on the TV or live, study them, watch how they work the audience. The one important factor about comedy is timing. Every comedian has good timing.

Bob Monkhouse was the perfect master at timing, study comedians and how they deliver punch lines.

Interruptions or Hecklers

Interruptions can work to your advantage, they can break the ice, make the speech more informal and `off the cuff`. Enjoy any interruptions, especially witty ones.

They can also allow you time to think and if it is the member of the audience who got the laugh, he will not be the one remembered for it, you will! People will remember it as being your speech that was funny.

Sincerity

By all means be sincere and say things in your speech that you mean. In a wedding speech remember to thank all those that you wanted to thank. As a groom it is your job to thank the Parents, Bridesmaids, Page Boys, Best Man, caterers, planners and most of all your new wife.

But remember as a groom the speech is usually from you and your wife, so thank everyone from the both of you.

By all means be funny, but mix the speech with some serious comments as well. It is the Best Mans job to be funny.

Body Language

Be confident, stand up straight, speak loudly and clearly. I have been to many a wedding where the Groom, Best Man is that nervous that he was constantly looking down, not interacting with his audience and speaking that quietly that only the top table could hear him.

You will instantly lose the audience, they will get fed up and there is nothing worse for a speaker than his audience talking amongst themselves during his speech. Be loud, be confident and capture your audience. Capture them right from the start.

Even if you are reading the speech, look up at your audience. Keeping eye contact with them tells them that you are talking to THEM. An added bonus is that it will help you with your pauses and slow you down, preventing you from rushing the speech.

Stay Sober

Try to minimise your alcohol intake before making your speech. The natural reaction is to drink to calm the nerves, yes have one for `Dutch Courage`, but do not over do it. You might think it helps but it does not.

Your audience will not appreciate a slurred speech!

So The Key Things To Remember Are:

  •     Memorise or read the speech
  •     Practise, practise and practise
  •     Slow down and do not rush your speech
  •     Enjoy and wait for the laughter
  •     Make the most of interruptions
  •     It is your speech that everyone will remember
  •     Be sincere as well as funny
  •     Be confident, speak clearly and loudly
  •     Do not overdo the drink before your speech
  •     Remember the audience will be on your side
  •     Check your flies!
  •     Look before you sit down, make sure the chair is where you want it to be!

     

Relax, be calm and most of all enjoy your speech. You will be amazed how much of a `buzz` you will get from hearing people laugh and applaud at what you have just said.

Coping With Your Nerves

You are bound to be nervous. I was confident at my wedding of speaking and was actually looking forward to making the speech, but I was still nervous and nerves can be good. The adrenaline can get you through it.

One of the plus points is that generally your audience are with you and on your side.

The reason you are making the speech is because you are connected in some way to your audience, friends and family. Which normally means they will listen to what you have to say, be generous with their laughter and applause. Poor jokes are normally well received with a groan or two, followed by laughter. So do not worry about failing, it will not happen.

Think about why you want to stand up and make the speech in the first place….Because you want to, you care about the people you are there with. You are doing it to make everyone there happy, it is part of the celebrations and it is not just you, Groom, Best Man, Father Of The Bride and occasionally the Bride, if you have a Mother-in-Law like mine she will probably want to say her piece as well!

It makes the speech more interesting to make it personal, names, funny stories, nicknames etc. That in turn makes it easier to be funny and interesting.

Planning

Normally you will know some time ahead of the wedding that you will be making a speech. So plan ahead.

Whatever time you have to plan make sure you give your speech your undivided attention and do not keep putting it off, so that the night before you are panicking about your speech. This most certainly will not help your nerves.

Write the speech, then put it down for a few days, go back to it and make a few changes, put it down again then a few days later go back to it again. Do not just write it in one session and then put it away until the actual day.

Write a few ideas down first on seperate pieces of paper, arrange them into some sort of order, this in turn can help you think of other ideas for your speech.

Play about with the pieces of paper, I generally try to think of say at least 6-10 amusing stories and then choose 3 that I think will work. If they tie in together even better.

Try not to repeat yourself though, look at your speech and edit out any repetitive material.

The best speeches are normally short ones, too long and the audience lose interest. As a rule I would say aim at around 5 minutes long, a little less is fine but try not to go on for longer than the 5 minutes.

And finally remember that the funniest stories are normally the true ones! Even if it is a joke that you wish to use, try to change the names to yours and make it sound as though it was a true story, if it is funny no one will mind that it was not actually true.

Practise

We have already mentioned how important it is to practise making your speech, but I cannot stress enough how important it is, especially for coping with your nerves. If you are familiar with your speech it always helps. If you are reading it and lose your place and you have not rehearsed it enough, then you will struggle to regain where you were in the speech. Keep practising and you have a better chance of regaining your composure and continuing the speech where you left off.

Good luck and enjoy it!

And if this advice was any help to you please let me know how you got on.

Martin

Wedding Insurance – Is It Worth It?

May 15th, 2012 by kitty

Is buying insurance for your wedding really an essential accessory to your big day or just another unnecessary expense to add to your already growing list?

The thought of adding yet another expense to what is likely to already be one of the largest outlays of your life may make you think wedding insurance isn’t worth shelling out for. Plus, with all the many seemingly superfluous elements of cover that can come with this kind of insurance, it’s easy to see why many of us decide to forego it and hope for the best.

However wedding insurance is likely to be one of the smallest expenses when it comes to planning your big day – cover can start from around £50, which may be a very reasonable price to pay to know that if things go wrong, you’ll at least have a financial safety net to fall back on.

What will it cover?

First of all, it’s important to note that while wedding insurance will cover many eventualities including many different reasons for cancellation, it almost certainly won’t pay out if you or your fiancé experience last-minute cold feet and decide to call the whole thing off.

It also won’t pay out for details that don’t turn out as you would have preferred on the day, for example if a rainstorm ruins your bridesmaids’ make-up or the cake turned out to be chocolate rather than fruit.

Wedding insurance will however cover circumstances such as your wedding venue no longer being able to hold the ceremony or reception due to fire, flood, or other disaster. It will also generally cover damage to your wedding dress before the day, damage or loss to your photographs, rings, flowers, cake or presents, and costs incurred if your supplier goes bust (think Wrapit) or your wedding transport, photographer, registrar, or other essential official fails to show up.

It will also usually cover you if you have to cancel your wedding for reasons such as a bereavement or illness in the family, though exactly when you will be covered for cancellation will be detailed specifically in your policy – so you’ll have to check your terms and conditions carefully.

Is it worth it?

Whether or not you think it is worth buying insurance to cover your wedding is a matter that ultimately rests entirely in your (and your fiancés) hands. There’s certainly no obligation to buy it and many uninsured weddings of course go off without a hitch. It comes down to whether or not you feel you would be happier knowing some of the costs of your wedding are covered by insurance.

It is possible to get a decent policy that covers the essential things you need at a reasonable price if you shop around and gather several different quotes, and if you make sure to read the ts and cs carefully before deciding on a policy. Go through the conditions of any policy you are interested in with a fine tooth comb before shelling out for it, as exclusions (as with many other insurance policies) can catch you out if you aren’t aware of them when you buy.

Remember too that it is likely you’ll have to pay an excess towards any claim you do need to make (though this should be only nominal if you get a policy that’s worth its salt).

What else should I consider?

Before you rush out to buy a wedding insurance policy, remember that it is possible to ‘insure’ some larger purchases yourself (those over £100) such as deposits by putting them on your credit card. Doing so gives you a degree of protection thanks to the Consumer Credit Act 1974, which states that both you and your credit card provider will be liable for the purchase if something goes wrong and it fails to materialise.

Also, it’s worth having a leaf through your home insurance documents before you begin to pick out a wedding insurance policy. It may well be that some eventualities that may come with a wedding are already covered under the ‘special occasions’ clause of your home insurance, or you may be able to temporarily increase your home insurance contents cover for expensive items such as wedding gifts left in your home while you’re off on honeymoon.

Finally, remember that wedding insurance generally won’t cover your honeymoon, and this will require separate travel insurance. Having both this and an adequate level of wedding insurance in place will ensure your nuptials are fully covered, from walking down the aisle to your wedding night!

How to Choose the Right Music for Weddings

May 14th, 2012 by kitty

You can have a live band, a quartet, DJ, or just yourself and a computer, no matter what, you can be sure that the music for weddings set the pace and the atmosphere of the event. Keep in mind that the songs that people hear are one of the most memorable elements of the wedding for them. When looking for the songs, you should consider your personality, the things that you want to express and also the theme of the wedding.

How much wedding music?

There is need for music during the ceremony itself, the pre-reception and the reception. Make sure that you have chosen enough songs so that you won’t need to improvise when there will be silence since there are no more songs on the playlist.

Music For WeddingsTheme

As it has been mentioned before regarding wedding music, in case the wedding has a specific theme, like beach or Asian, you should choose the kinds of songs that match the theme.

The first dance

The music for weddings is usually characterized by the song of the first dance. You should take a close look at the lyrics of the song, and make sure that they are right for the occasion.

Also practice dancing to the beat with your partner to ensure that it isn’t too fast or too slow for any of you. Don’t go for the trendy songs of the moment. This should be a special song with a specific meaning for you.

The ceremony

The wedding music that will be played during the ceremony has to be shown to the officiant before the wedding, because there might be some strict rules regarding the songs that can be played. You should discuss the music with him as soon as possible, and he or she could also have some recommendations regarding the music for weddings.

Think about the guests

One of the most important aspects of a wedding is to make the guests feel included in the event. This is why it may be a good idea to choose wedding music according to the kind of guests that you have and their taste in music.

Plot

Professional wedding planers advise the couple to consider the wedding a movie, and choose the music for weddings according to the plot of the wedding. By this you should understand that certain key moments require more special songs, like walking down the aisle, the first dance, cutting the cake and so on.

Planning

Make sure that the instructions you have given regarding the wedding music are clear for everybody so that you know what kind of music will be played at every moment of the event.

There are some popular songs that are played at almost every wedding that you have attended. The song lists you will find on the internet, but in case you would like to have something different that is specific for you, you will have some research to do until you find the music for weddings that you will find perfect.

The Perfect Wedding Shoes for Bride

May 14th, 2012 by kitty

It is important to have the perfect wedding shoes for bride because it is pointless to have a nice wedding dress without the shoes that aren’t perfect. The biggest influence on your choice will have the kind of wedding that you are planning. In case of an evening wedding you could go for the sandals, but in case of a ballroom you need beaded mules.

The color when looking for brides’ wedding shoes

You might think that all white is white, but there are different shades, and this is why it could be useful to take a sample of fabric with you when looking for the shoes for wedding. In many of the cases the dresses come in diamond white color and if the shoes don’t match, you could tone down the dress.

Wedding Shoes for BrideAlterations

When you are going to try on wedding dresses, you should take along bride’s wedding shoes of similar height that you are going to have at your wedding. In case of the final alterations you should have the actual shoes with you.

In many cases the hem is made according to the shoes, and this is why it is important to have the wedding shoes with you. Also make sure that you won’t change the wedding shoes for bridal attire.

Fabrics

The clue regarding the fabric that you should choose for the shoes is given by the bottom of the dress. In case the dress is made of shiny fabric, the satin shoes work out the best. On the other hand the sheen dresses are great with crepe brides’ wedding shoes. Of course if the dress is made of lace, the shoes have to be lacy as well.

Styles

There may be some confusion regarding the style, but there is a rule that you have to keep in mind in case of wedding shoes for bride: fancy shoes for the simple dress and simple shoes for the fancy dress. Naturally the embellishments also have a word to say.

Embellishments and details

If you choose brides’ wedding shoes with details or embellishments and the dress also has some, you have to make sure that they match. As an example in case there are rhinestones or crystals on the shoes, the work best with shiny, bejeweled or sequined dresses. Beaded shoes work just great with pearly dresses.

Think about yourself

Your silhouette also influences the kinds of wedding shoes for bride you should be looking for. Keep in mind that the least material the shoes have, the better your leg will look in them. If you happen to have skinny ankles, you should be looking for low-cut shoes.

In the majority of the cases those are the best brides’ wedding shoes that come with low-cut sling or low-cut pumps. Also the narrower the heel is, the better. Keep in mind that the narrow toes make the feet look slimmer, unlike the rounded ones.

You might have seen that there are many wedding shoes for bride, and the choice is up to you.